Talk
Can a man talk with a woman? Yes, a man will talk with a woman . . . until she is his! He will talk till he knows her, and until she knows enough of him. He gains nothing by further talk. Having fished-out her shallows, she has no depth to hold his interest. There is no respect in the morning.
Radio Priest and the female mind (a transcript)
Woman: I am confused. The man I am with now is the best friend I ever had, but I think I should go back to the man I was with before, even though he used to abuse me badly.
Priest: But you really feel a lot for the man you're with now . . . so I think you should do what your heart tells you!
Woman: My heart tells me to go back to the man who abused me.
Priest: Then you should do what your mind tells you.