The suffering servant
The spiritual man suffers, because his ego is only a shell, without real substance. And he doesn't hide his suffering. He doesn't have sufficient self-respect to put on a brave face for the world.
He is hated and ignored by many, yet the impact of his virtue is felt across the Universe. He rejoices in difficulty: the more difficult his task, and the more he suffers, the better the result. You see, the more one has, the more one prevents others from having. Whereas the more one loses, the more others can have.
Man without a woman suffers for this life, but is rewarded in eternity.