Honey
When your spiritual energy begins to flow, the opposite sex will be attracted like bees to the honey. But so too will come the flies!
To some you will be an exquisite nectar, and they will try to suck from your surface, or catch what spills over your brim. To others you will be a boil of pus to be ruptured.
You must beware not only the lance, but also the kiss. Others too must become honey!