The song goes: "I'm looking for a hard-headed woman. One that will make me do my best."
Hah! The contradictions of relationships are unlimited! If the woman really was hard-headed she certainly wouldn't have any interest in men - nor men in her!
Man wants a woman to appear as the person he himself wishes to be - the perfect man. He wants to see her as strong, rational, cool, above the world. If she gives this appearance, then good for her - but she had better be feminine underneath!
A woman has to be all things to a man, sometimes a mother, a sister, a daughter, a prostitute, and sometimes . . . a father.