Undeniably, contradictions abound where love is even mentioned. Love is held to be a universal good, yet we find that some loves, strangely, are more acceptable than others. To love one's family is virtuous, yet to love violence is evil. So, we tell the young to be cautious where they place their love, which is like trying to tell a cancer that it may infect all parts of the body - except this one particular part. You see, love is so ruinous of mind that once it is created, nothing can stop its destructive course.